What Women Really Want

by Professional Matchmakers

The most attractive quality to either sex is someone that knows who they want. This can be traced all the way back to the ancient wisdom of Socrates who spoke about the theory of soulmates, and you can see it all around the modern day world with all the romantic comedies that we had to bear throughout the holidays. That’s why when you are ready to start dating, it’s important to know what you want, otherwise, how are you ever going to get it? This way you can avoid any Elite Connections complaints about women being fickle. Our professional matchmakers know that everyone has differences in taste, needs, wants, and expectations. This is why we bring you what women want at different stages of their lives. 

Woman in her 20s

I call this stage “the unraveling stage.” The woman in her 20s just reached adulthood a few years ago. She is just beginning to taste full freedom and is exploring that to see what she likes and what she wants to do. This is why it’s not surprising for her to jump from one dating service to another. According to professional matchmakers, a woman in her 20s wants to go out on a lot of beautiful and memorable dates. She wants to have fun and be loved deeply at the same time. She is starting to realize what works and what doesn’t work for her, but mainly, she is in a stage of trial and error.  

Woman in her 30s

The 30s is the time where every woman wants to get serious. She’s done the dating around and has figured out what she wants. If she’s dating you, it’s because she sees something special in you and most likely wants someone that will pop the big question. According to Elite Connections reviews, women in their 30s show the highest level of commitment and desire to get married. Our professional matchmakers are mindful of these goals and make sure that they match women in this age frame to other bachelors that are also looking for the long term. By now, she knows what she is looking for and who she is likely to be compatible with. She’s not going to date anyone just because she sees the slightest glimmer of potential. She yearns for soul-quality. Someone who understands himself. A man who is on the same page as her, who also has learned from past relationships and is not interested in repeating old and negative behavior patterns.

Woman in her 40s

Some Elite Connections complaints show that women in their 40s can be pretty hard to figure out. However, our elite dating service has sourced and figured out why this is. Women in their 40s are either probably divorced, single moms, or they have not been ready for a relationship until now. This means that her next relationship needs to be a serious one. She is done playing games or picking the wrong partner. She might have experienced ups and downs from her previous relationships or learned from other women, so honesty and loyalty will make her feel safe with you. Professional matchmakers will advise that quality romance to a woman in her 40’s is attentiveness and time. She wants to feel the connection. She wants to be “wooed” through acts of consideration, respect, and support, and she wants to feel special. Her confidence means she is not afraid to be vulnerable and laugh at herself either. Truly, it is a special man who can steal and keep the heart of a woman in her 40’s. Remember they say ”life begins at 40”, a woman in her 40s doesn’t want to be seen as old, she feels she’s younger than ever and she’s ready to explore.

Woman in her 50s

Recent Elite Connection reviews have seen that dating a woman in her 50s means you are dating a woman who is finished with repeating the same mistakes and is ready to find her grown-up love story. So, if a woman in her 50s is interested in dating you, chances are she thinks you are worth her time. Even though she’s rarely clingy, she needs a chatty partner and values strong companionship. The flashy, superficial aspect of a relationship just does not cut it anymore. She wants to be happier than ever because a woman in her 50s is happier than she’s ever been. She has probably experienced more than enough of Oprah’s infamous “aha” moments to understand and accept (and love) who she is. She’s no longer riddled with the anxiety and insecurity of yesterday, so her partner now has to be one the same page. 

Woman in her 60s

First thing first, this category of women wants someone that will develop a deep and lasting relationship with them. Many women in this age are having a hard time trusting men–whether due to a painful divorce or a series of disappointing dating experiences. In recent Elite Connection reviews, and according to Sixty+ Me Community, many women over 60 find that their sense of confidence is broken and feel disillusioned by men and marriage —so they don’t want someone that will shatter them even more. Also, one of the top Elite Connection complaints is that women don’t appreciate comparison. Please do not compare her to younger women. Some 60+ women might be in great shape and appear younger than their age so focus on complimenting and bringing her up. Mature women are looking for a genuine man who practices kindness and lives from the heart. Someone who will treasure her heart enough to never let her down at this latter stage. According to Elite Connection reviews, she also wants lots of romance, and words of affirmation to make her feel she isn’t too old to be loved.

It’s not out of place to say that most women wish there was a machine that could examine the intentions of men that approach them. Well, none exists. This is why ‘making your intentions known’ is the mantra of every dating service. In the end, every woman wants to be loved by someone, they want signs of certainty in a relationship and that is one major thing their partners should be sensitive to. 

If you are ready to start dating, then our professional matchmakers are here for you. We have an established dating service that is experienced in helping people from all stages of life find true love. Contact us through email at info@eliteconnections.com or by phone at 1-800-923-4200 today!